“There are a thousand excuses for failure, but never a good reason”, I agree. Some psychologists think that bad and good habits people get through lifetime period. If so, then….
Most people never get rid of bad habits, mostly because they fail to do what needs to be done. They also have a lack of being focus. Their attitude is poor to decision of choice. Kicking a bad habit is something people should take lightly. Getting rid of something that’s having a big impact on your life in a negative way needs to be removed. You never take this journey without help from friends or others. Most People fail at kicking a Bad habit away. Due to the fact that they don’t know the full procedures of fully getting rid of whole bad habit.
People just mostly run they mouth about getting the habit gone, but nothing in the lives change. They living there every day lives, some people have very poor focusing, and take a poor attitude towards their choice. Some people take the process better than others; it’s all in how much drive you have at being successful at getting rid of this bad habit. When first getting rid of a bad habit you start by changing your attitude. You attitude plays a big roll rather you notice it or not.
As you get rid of the habit your attitude controls a lot like your behavior! How you react in the process will determined you being successful or failed at your attempt of getting rid of a bad habit. Also after changing your attitude you should “Stop being so defensive” towards things. You should be open to others that are going to help you get rid of your bad habit. When seeking help others you should be able to accept criticism you have to willing to listen to people advice. In certain situations you should take heat to whoever is trying to help you.
Learning how not to be decisive when getting criticized it’s never to bash you or bring you down it’s to better you. Sometimes it helps if having a good friend or a family member that can relate to what you doing, to make you feel more comfortable with what you going through. Following up after, changing the following things. You should start looking ahead, towards the future. Imagination is way stronger that will power that’s if you can see yourself doing it than you can accomplish it with a little work.
Also seeing other people overcome what you’re trying to overcome that also helps make things a tad bit easier. One of the most important steps of getting rid of a bad habit is being “Focus” without being focus you cannot accomplishment anything, your focus ability determined a lot. It’s like driving a car if you’re not focus then it probably will result in an accident or even worst death. It’s the same with anything else you decide to do. Getting side track with your outside life would be very easy. When getting rid of a bad habit I recommend not getting side track.
Also getting hearing words of wisdom as of suck “Keep your eyes on the prize” things like that is very nice to hear to keep moving forward. Once you have a stop doing whatever habit you were continuously doing should not look back to the past. Leave the bad habit where it’s at; choose your group of people you hang with everyday wisely don’t hang around with those who will bring you back with living that life with the bad habit. Sometimes making a list of what to do and not to do is very helpful. This far in the process you should know right from wrong. They shouldn’t be no “caught up in the moments”.
While getting rid of a bad habit you should always “Create a System” a system as in setting your goals to the future, taking things step by step is a pretty good idea. By doing that you have to stay on one path, do not fall off your bath that falls back on being focus. While creating your system you should also be aware of others trying to bring you down, people that don’t want to see you be successful. Keep your eyes on the prize a zone out negative people. Following this process of getting rid a bad habit you should have no problem getting over anything.